Wednesday, September 23, 2015

THE ART OF GETTING BY

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Get by  -  phrasal verb (/ɡet/ verb (present participle gettingpast participle gotten/ˈɡɑt·ən/ or got/ɡɑt/ )
                      - to manage or continue to exist in a state or situation where something is lacking


In this case... YOU.

It's been a month since you left and I still can't find the perfect words to weave together to express how I really feel (or felt that night you bid goodbye). You left my heart shattered and I don't think it will ever return to the way it was before. Everytime I think of you, the pang of regret and yearning engulfs me. And it sucks. It sucks because I can't do anything about it. I feel so helpless. Hopeless, even. How will I start fixing myself when I know for a fact that a huge part of me is missing because when we parted ways, you took that piece away with you? I still can't believe that all those years filled with pure bliss, sadness, unexpected moments, and unforgettable experiences are now nothing but mere memories of a great love I once knew... memories that I know I should be burying because they all still remind me of you. It hurts, yes. And I don't think the pain will ever be gone. But right now, the only thing that I should be doing is trying to learn how to live without you. No, this is not me moving on. Not yet. This is just me trying to accept the fact that you are already gone. This is just me trying to face the reality that this "letting go and moving on" phase will be sad and long. And finally, this is just me trying to get by... trying to continue existing like nothing ever went wrong.



(Definition of get by from the Cambridge Academic Content Dictionary © Cambridge University Press)

Monday, August 10, 2015

ON LETTING GO AND MOVING ON

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"In the end, only three things matter: how fully you lived, how deeply you loved, and how well you learned to let go of things not meant for you."

This quote, lifted from one of the pages of Fr. Jerry M. Orbos' book entitled Just A Moment, has been one of my favorites ever since. The last line is what actually  struck me the most. Let me share with you snippets of my life. Let's go back to the time where it all began. 

As a child, I have always loved writing stories and poems. So when I entered fourth grade, I decided to enrich my craft by joining writing competitions where I have fortuitously won most of the time. Moreover, I have been a part of our school paper where I became the Editor-in-Chief. When I entered high school, I still continued pursuing my passion so I was fortunate enough to be given the position of Columnist in our official newsletter. But by the time I was about to take various college entrance examinations, my hopes of becoming “successful” got in the way. I thought that by becoming an accountant, I will be guaranteed with a high-paying salary and a bright future ahead of me. But I was wrong. I decided to let go of my dream of becoming a writer and pushed myself to turn my back from my world of words to face a future filled with numbers. It was a difficult decision but I really wanted to give my family a better life so I pursued a program far different from the career I have always dreamed of having. 

But perhaps it is true that when you are meant to do something, the universe conspires to help you accomplish it. During the summer of 2013, I was invited by my sister who is currently taking up AB in Communication Arts to audition as a radio jock for UST Tiger Radio. Since I am an exuberant teen, I decided to give it a shot. After that, we also tried out for Magic 89.9, Monster Radio RX 93.1, 99.5 Play FM and Mossimo Radio. Fortunately, we were both chosen to become a part of Magic 89.9’s Street Team and I was blessed to be one of UST Tiger Radio’s newest jocks. During the training, workshops and shows, I have come to realize that I am back on track. I have been given the opportunity to be involved in the field of communication once more. Apart from the aforementioned activities, I have also been given a chance to host an event for the very first time. I was invited by the Isetann Mall to host U-Belt Dance Duo. Add to that the fact that I have been receiving great feedbacks from the people around me with regards to my communication skills. One good example would be my Oral Communication professor who inspired me to become better in this field. Thank you, Ma'am Pia! 

I must say that I found true happiness not in crunching numbers but in weaving words together and in speaking either through the radio or in front of a large crowd. And all of these things pushed me to follow my heart's desire. I decided to shift to the AB in Communication Arts program. As luck would have it, I passed the shifter's exam and am now a step closer to fulfilling my dreams. This academic year, I can already proudly call myself an Artlet and believe me, it still gives me goosebumps everytime. 



I am still not certain of the future that's waiting for me. Yes, it's not easy to start anew especially when you're already halfway through. But one thing's for sure: I am beyond happy because I can finally take the path truly intended for me.

So if you are having doubts right now about anything, always remember the three simple rules in life (anonymous author):
1. If you do not go after what you want, you'll never have it.
2. If you do not ask, the answer will always be 'no'.
3. If you do not step forward, you will always be in the same place.

Friday, July 17, 2015

OBJECTION, YOUR HONOR

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Their lives are risked for justice
They fight for what is right
They bolster the spirits of the innocent
And go against the oppressors with all their might

These people are called lawyers
They are our modern-day heroes
Polished by years of study
Reliable defenders against our foes

But their job is not that easy
They also have to take the side of the wrong
Only coffee can keep them awake
When they have to read thick books and stay up too long

They have to be clever
They need to be witty
They are required to be emotionally strong too
So as to outsmart the other party

I dream of becoming one someday
A righteous person with integrity
Who will, if given the chance, defend
And put all the oppressed out of their misery

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It was three years ago when I wrote this poem. Looking back, I think this was one of the reasons why I decided to take up Accountancy. A lot of people told me that it would be a good pre-law program so I took heed. But I think the wind of fate blew me to a different path. But nevertheless, I am still happy that this became one of my dreams because it really pushed me to to focus on my studies and even encouraged me to excel academically. So here's the aspiring CPA-Lawyer three years ago. (Don't mind the background hihi).

Monday, July 13, 2015

THE POWER OF HASHTAGS

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How powerful can a symbol be? How helpful? How useful? Well, this article answers all our questions about one of the most abused utilized symbols today.


I am happy and honored to be featured in this write-up along with my co-jocks Macy and Chase. Thank you so much, Tomasian Cable Television and Neem Cahoy for this beautiful article. More power to the official broadcasting arm of the University of Santo Tomas!


Join in on the fun by tuning in to UST Tiger Radio via mixlr.com/ustigeradio.

Wednesday, June 24, 2015

#MoveOnKaNa

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Yesterday, I had the opportunity to board for Tiger Radio Chill Pill. I'm DJ Avery, by the way. Hihi. Okay, moving on. I had about a week of preparation for the topic, the spiel and the playlist. It was difficult but it was really fun. A few minutes before I went on-air, I was really praying for the show to be a success. And as Jesse Mccartney's "Just So You Know" was playing, I was really surprised to see the number of listeners gradually increasing. You see, when I auditioned for Tiger Radio and became a trainee, I was already happy with a handful of listeners. But yesterday evening, I got overwhelmed to see more than 200 people tuned in. And would you believe it? Our topic #MoveOnKaNa landed on the second spot for Philippine Trends! Take a look:


Wow. It just felt surreal to have a lot of people support you and your work, knowing that you have given your hundred and one percent. I'm not sure if anyone will be able to read this but I would like to take this chance to thank everyone who tuned in last night. You all don't know how happy you made me feel. Thank you for the appreciation and kind words although I had a few mistakes while boarding. I hope this success continues for the whole Tiger Radio Team.

If, by any chance, someone gets to read this and is clueless about what I'm talking about, try tuning in to Tiger Radio via mixlr.com/ustigeradio every Wednesday at 8 to 10 in the evening for your dose of #TRChillPill. Bye!

Saturday, June 20, 2015

TO MY ONE AND ONLY

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My Unmasked Superhero

One brave soul took a courageous journey,
not fearing solitude when he went to another country.
Tears from his loved ones were shed,
even from friends who were with him when he was hanging by a thread.

People know him as a wonderful father,
a responsible husband and a loving brother.
He works hard and gives his all for his family's sake
a sacrifice not everyone is willing to make.

This, for me, is true bravery.
For the latter is not just about going to war and taking a bullet for somebody.
It's actually about being selfless and true.
So to my unmasked superhero, I want to say "Thank you".

You are that one brave soul who took a courageous journey.
You are the man I proudly call "Daddy".
And the reason why I look up to people who go overseas for their family
is because of your one-of-a-kind bravery.

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Happy father's day, daddy! I love you!

*photo taken about five years ago hihi

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

PUSHED TO THE LIMIT

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*The photo's not mine

A cross to bear— this is how most students view college life. The constant demands, together with the pressure from other people, can definitely make any individual insane. But aside from the tension that academics bring, extra-curricular activities also put a great weight on one’s already unbearable burden. The piles of homework, projects, and quizzes, when combined with the tasks from non-academic activities can make a person feel overwhelmed. All these boil down to one thing— stress. 

It is a phenomenon experienced by many and is usually attributed to as the main cause of depression. The latter is just one of the many effects that this adaptive response can bring. It is a state of low mood and has a great effect on one’s thoughts and feelings. But aside from that, people who experience stress also undergo physical and behavioral changes because of health complications. Loss of weight, lack of sleep, illnesses, and inclination towards vices are just some of its manifestations. Other physical outcomes would be aches, nausea, pains, and even constipation. The behavioral consequences on the other hand are feelings of isolation, neglect, and aversion to activities. 

Unfortunately, stress does not only affect a person physically or behaviorally. It can also take a toll on an individual’s cognition and emotion. A few examples would be memory problems, poor judgment, moodiness, and agitation. 

Having stress in life is truly unavoidable.  The burden of school works, the pressure from the people around, and even the difficulty of conforming to the society’s standards of a responsible individual all have a great impact on a student who is still trying to adjust to the changes that are happening not only to his surroundings but to his own body and life as well. It may seem normal for everyone is experiencing it but stress, when not given proper action and attention, may lead to drastic outcomes and worst, may even take the precious life of an individual who may possibly be the next great mind in history.

Monday, December 1, 2014

CRASIS

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*The photo's not mine

“Just when the butterfly thought the world was over, it became a butterfly.” Like the magnificent creature that opened and displayed its wings at last, the brusque girl who once got rejected because of her manly actions and physique finally had the chance to reveal the beauty that was within her all along. No, it was not grief from the negative response that created the unexpected turn of events. It was actually the longing for love that outweighed the pain of rejection.

Love indeed works in ways we can never gauge.  The sudden change of disposition, the improvement of physical appearance, and even the minor modifications in our actions are all caused by this burning passion. When hit with this kind of affection, one feels the need to adjust and make some alterations on his external features so as to look good in the eyes of the one he adores. The changes can be seen from the way he mixes and matches his clothes down to the way he presents himself not only to his significant other but to the people around him as well.

However, that actually becomes a problem in the long run. When summer is over and the once astounding characteristics of an individual have already vanished, the love that once existed between the two beings may disappear along with it. What people should realize is that change done superficially will never last. A “come-and-go” transformation just to conform to the expectations of others will never equal the lasting effect of modifications that occurred within.

Yes, love truly encourages change. But it should not only happen on the surface. What this powerful force wants a person to improve are the inner attributes that will definitely last for a long time. After all, when you love someone, you love them not for something as temporary and as shallow as their looks but for who they truly are deep down to the soul.

Sunday, October 26, 2014

OVERWORKED AND UNDERSLEPT

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PHOTO TAKEN FROM: LINK

A mental, emotional, or physical strain brought about by burdensome circumstances, more commonly known as stress, is not unusual for many. In fact, according to the American Psychological Association, “on a scale of 1-10 where one means ‘little or no stress’ and 10 means ‘a great deal of stress’, people aged 18-33 are reporting an average of 5.4.” The bracket evidently pertains to people who are in college.

Our fast-paced world demands a lot from us. To be competent enough, one must not just finish at least fourteen years of study, but must excel all throughout as well. Accountancy students are not new to this situation. From the time they have started taking up the program up to the time they are about to take the board exams, the pressure given to them is unimaginable. In a world full of competition, students tend to go beyond their own capacities just to be on top. They extend their hours of review or go through intensive tutorials which lead to sleepless nights. Add to that the mountain-pile of homework and quizzes that the professors give out. But aside from academic matters, majority of these students also juggle their schedule to fit extra-curricular activities into whatever time they have left. A few examples would be running for student council presidency or trying out for the basketball team or even participating in various academic and non-academic competitions.

At first, being active is good because it shows how productive a student is. However, these kids unconsciously abuse themselves by doing things all at once. The most noticeable effect of stress is the emergence of illnesses like headache, gastrointestinal problems, and even heart complications. Anxiety and mood swings may also occur and may even lead to a more severe disorder like depression.

There are a lot of articles published today which provide information on how to fight stress. But probably, the three most effective are: eat, prioritize, and laugh. One should eat nutritious food to replenish the lost nutrients in the body. Another helpful tip is to carry a planner and stick to a checklist so tasks can be done immediately. But after going through all that stress, one thing that students, specifically those taking up Accountancy, should not forget is to have fun. After all, as the famous line goes, “All work and no play makes John a dull boy.”

Saturday, October 11, 2014

THINK GREEN

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PHOTO TAKEN FROM: http://www.biochar-international.org/profile_Neil_Lumanlan_biochar_stoves

Typhoons in the Philippines are not unusual. However, those that cause great flooding have become unbearable for many, especially those who have been affected tremendously. Ondoy, Milenyo, and Yolanda are just some of the most severe downpours that the Filipinos have managed to live through. But no matter how resilient we are, we do not have the capacity to withstand all its drastic consequences forever. One typhoon survivor had the same realization.  Right after the life-changing typhoon Ketsana, he immediately thought of ways on how to reduce, if not totally eradicate, the repercussions of global warming. A University of Santo Tomas Instructor, Mr. Neil Ian Lumanlan devotes much of his time making gasifier stoves and intensifying the benefits it can give. The biochar, a charcoal used as a soil amendment, is the end product of these green stoves. Studies show they can be utilized to produce negative carbon dioxide emissions which can hopefully save our planet from being destroyed by the unwanted results of our own slackness. According to the International Biochar Initiative, this newly-discovered charcoal can be used to refine soil quality for better agricultural produce; can draw down atmospheric carbon; do not pollute land or water; and can recover processed heat for energy production. But most importantly, they can enhance the ecological conditions for biodiversity and thus, improving sustainability. With these perceived benefits, Mr. Lumanlan tries his best to promote this new green technology. As an instructor, he teaches Accountancy majors how to build stoves from tin cans that will eventually produce biochars and even gives them sample products from his own business to be used in their own homes. But aside from that, he also makes an effort to travel to provinces and help farmers build their very own version of biochar-producing green stoves. Simple yet truly revolutionary — these are the words that would best describe this young man’s projects towards a cleaner and greener environment. After experiencing the drastic effects of climate change, he believes that this simple step can make a difference and may really help the people around him to change and save our beloved planet before it’s too late.

Tuesday, September 9, 2014

SWEET TOOTH

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I've been staying in the hospital for three days now and it's really sucking the life out of me.


It's a good thing that I can finally do something fun. So for my comeback post, I would be blabbing about my previous trip to an eat-all-you-can dessert buffet.

After a very stressful week in school, my friends planned to unwind by heading to Love Desserts located in Banawe, Quzon City right after our last class. Since I was in the mood for some sugar rush, I decided to tag along. It took us two jeepney rides from UST and a bit of walking.

When we reached the restaurant, it was jam-packed so we had to wait for more or less two hours just to get in. The place was quite small and it did not have any proper holding area so it was really disappointing.



But when our turn came, we all cheered like little kids because our tummies were already going crazy. Upon entering, this is what welcomed us:


WOAH. 

I have never seen so much desserts in just one table. But that's not all! For only two hundred pesos, all the sweet treats can be yours for two hours. Yes! It's an eat-all-you-can buffet restaurant. Here are some of the desserts that we have tried:





Crepe, shake, pie, cake... name it and they've got it! But for my final verdict, I would only give it three stars out of five (3/5).

As a sweet tooth, I was expecting the treats to be really delicious and sweet BUT THEY WERE NOT! As a matter of fact, some of them were tasteless and the rest was just okay. All in all, the gastronomic experience was not so phenomenal. An unlimited serving of desserts was a first so I guess it's what got my hopes up high. But for those who are not really into very sweet snacks and drinks, then this might be the perfect place for you.

Sunday, August 3, 2014

MYTHOLOGY: ITS PURPOSE AND EFFECT

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Our Literature professor asked us to write a thousand-word essay regarding the purpose and effects of mythology, specifically on the image of men and women. I posted it here to share to everyone my masterpiece that I have worked on for six straight hours. Enjoy reading! :)

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Myths have already reached into all the nooks and crannies of the lives of everyone. Although they lack authenticity and reliability, we have to admit that these stories have played a huge part in explaining the universe and all that is in it. They act as a medium of conveying ideas of how the world was formed, how humans were created, what happens after life, why people act the way they do, how certain practices originated, where laws were based, how heroes use their god-given powers, what attributes to emulate, and what happens to those who do good and evil things. So based on the aforementioned statements, we can infer that myths were primarily constructed to explain the unexplainable. They unravel mysteries that the human mind can not simply make sense of. Aside from that, these narratives also justify a culture's activities. They explain how rituals and norms were conceived. They present guidelines for human beings as well. The individuals in these texts usually portray roles that are supposed to be imitated by the readers. They basically act as role models — archetypal beings who experience difficulties but overcome them by making use of their admirable qualities. But the most wonderful thing that a myth does is give meaning to life. These stories, no matter how unbelievable they may seem, have inherent reasons of how things happen and morals that somehow give inspiration to whoever makes an effort in pondering upon them.

It is already apparent that these myths can greatly affect one's outlook in life. Perhaps that is the reason why most of our beliefs and actions today are deeply rooted in these fictional texts. A good example of that would be gender stratification — an inequality between men and women. A lot of stories show that the actions and attitudes of the characters are based on their capabilities and limitations brought about by their gender. As a matter of fact, these stories may have even paved the way for the society to make a clear distinction between the male and female persona. They have actually made the former superior over the latter.

Although the story of Genesis in the Bible is not really considered as one of these deliberately made-up narratives, it still depicts a story similar to those of the myths where women are subservient. The act of taking a man's rib and putting it in a woman's body is simply telling us that women are dependent on men. Aside from that, they were also created to serve as a companion and helper of the latter. It implies that the role and abilities of the female persona are limited and were created for the sole benefit of the male persona.

Another Biblical narrative that depicts discrimination is the story of Samson and Delilah. Delilah, who is obviously the woman, is described as beautiful and seductive. Again, it shows stratification because she has become an object of desire for Samson, thereby exposing women as a visually striking display to be looked at.

A good myth that is quite similar to that is the Panay- Visayan folktale entitled "Tungkung Langit and Alunsina". It is an account of creation that was formed from the love story of two gods. Tungkung Langit, the man, possesses all the good qualities like being industrious, responsible, loving, and kind. He is the ruler who works hard for coordination and order. Alunsina, the woman, is the absolute opposite. She is lazy, jealous and selfish. There was even a part in the story where she was described as just waiting in their abode for the coming of her husband. It gives us an idea that women are associated with the private space of the domestic, and men are linked to the public domain of work. Again, it is an utter discrimination between the two genders.

Another example is the Cherokee creation myth. This is quite different because it talks about a brother and a sister — the first two human beings on earth. Superiority was depicted when the brother hit his sister with a fish and forced her to multiply. The role of women was clearly established in this particular scene. It simply shows that they were originally intended to follow the orders of men and bear children for them.

More bigotry can be seen in the famous Filipino myth entitled "Si Malakas at si Maganda". Malakas, the man, was created first and he was the one who decided where his mate would come from. It only signifies that men always come first and they possess the ability to make important decisions.

Yes, it is true that myths are not something that we should completely believe in. However, like any other story that circulates in our society, these false narratives have a great tendency to influence whoever hears them. Now, based on these fictional texts, one can easily become aware of the image that myths have formed in the minds of the people. They have showed us that women are meant to be submissive and men are expected to exude dominance. The disappointing effects of these accounts are evident in our world today. Men have become the symbol for strength, while women are seen as weak individuals. This can be considered as one of the reasons why a lot of men take advantage of women. The latter get abused, belittled, neglected, and objectified. It is truly frustrating to see that most of the female population experience discrimination because of physical limitations which were even more emphasized because of stories propagated centuries ago.

But fortuitously, beliefs are gradually changing over time. We are finally in the process of breaking free from the common notion that our society must follow a patriarchal system that actually puts men in a pedestal. Many people are really hoping that this would come to a completion sooner so the future generation would not solely base their actions from ancient stories and thus, putting an end to previous practices where an entity must always be placed above the other.

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

THE END OF GENDER STRATIFICATION

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Inequality has always been present in our society. Slavery, racism, and discrimination in social standings are just some of the most common examples that we know. But gender stratification for me is the worst.
Centuries ago, men were always put on top. The women, who are apparently weak, can do nothing but be subservient. A good proof for this is the story of Tungkung Langit and Alunsina. This text is basically telling us that men possess all the great characteristics  industrious, loving, kind, and organized. They are the rulers who work for order, peace, and coordination. Women, on the other hand, are the complete opposite. They are lazy, jealous, and selfish. All they do is stay at home, wait for their better half, and feel fulfilled by serving him.
But today, this is not the case anymore. Most of the women are the providers for their family. They have become more competent and equally hardworking. In fact, women have already become a symbol of strength. They, who were notioned as weak, are now the perfect epitome of individuals who exude beauty and grace even under pressure.

Friday, July 18, 2014

26: GROWING THROUGH TEMPTATION

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THE PURPOSE- DRIVEN LIFE
DAY 26

POINT TO PONDER: Every temptation is an opportunity to do good.

VERSE TO REMEMBER: "God blesses the people who patiently endure testing. Afterward they will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him." James 1:12 (NLT)

QUESTION TO CONSIDER: What Christlike character quality can I develop by defeating the most common temptation I face?

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I have mentioned before that when I get annoyed at people who have poor attitudes, I tend to share my thoughts to my close friends. I want to stop myself from doing so but I always get tempted and I know that it's not something God would be happy about. So if I would learn how to defeat that temptation, I can prevent myself from speaking ill of others and I can finally find peace. This is what we call "self-control". It's one of Christ's characters that I would absolutely love to develop.

Before I end this post, I would like to share some ways on how we could overcome the different temptations that we face from day to day. These steps are written on this chapter and I must say that they have really helped me change some of my wrongdoings. I hope they can transform you too.

1. Refuse to be intimidated.
2. Recognize your pattern of temptation and be prepared for it.
3. Request God's help.

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

KATCHACANVAS

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As I was browsing through the posts on my Facebook feed last week, I stumbled upon this photo:


I got all hyped up and decided to invite my friends to take part in this activity.

So last Saturday, we went to The Learning Library and met the super bubbly owners of KatchACanvas.

Ate Kar, Teacher Ivy, and Ate Precious

The KAC Team divided us into four groups. I was assigned to cut plastic cover, while the others were tasked to cover, catalog, and find the lexile level of the books.




While doing the assigned tasks, my friends and I had the chance to talk to each other and ask about the different happenings in our lives. Ever since we entered college, we don't get to spend much time together anymore. So this activity was not just fulfilling; it was absolutely fun as well.

Ate Kar, Ate Precious, and Teacher Ivy were very friendly and it was so nice of them to provide snacks for us while working. They made sure that we were really having fun.

It was past six when we finished everything. Before heading home, the KAC Team gave us certificates as a form of appreciation.




If you want to feel the same fulfillment that we felt, you can extend a helping hand by volunteering or by buying their super cute totes.

*photo grabbed from their facebook page

By doing so, you can "make Filipino education better one bag, one book at a time."

If interested, you may contact Ate Kar Abola and Ate Precious Valenzuela through Facebook.

Tuesday, July 8, 2014

25: TRANSFORMED BY TROUBLE

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THE PURPOSE- DRIVEN LIFE
DAY 25

POINT TO PONDER: There is a purpose behind every problem.

VERSE TO REMEMBER: "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." Romans 8:28 (NIV)

QUESTION TO CONSIDER: What problem in my life has caused the greatest growth in me?

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Our financial difficulties used to make me so disappointed and there were even times when I resented God for giving us such a heavy burden. But surprisingly, it was also during those hard times when I sought for His comfort. There was no one else I could turn to so I just prayed. Those trials truly helped me grow in faith. You see, "it's during suffering that we learn to pray our most authentic, heartfelt, honest-to-God prayers." These predicaments are not punishments; they are the tools that God uses to draw us closer to Him. I can say that this chapter has taught me to be trusting and truthful at the same time. It encouraged me to stop worrying and just look to God and depend on Him. It helped me be more open as well. Whenever I feel hopeless, I just close my eyes and let Him know that it's His love that I need. Right now, I still experience a lot of hardships but I have finally learned how to rejoice and not give up in the midst of it all because I know for a fact that these things happen because He has a great plan for me and that He will stay by my side no matter what. I guess it's really true that we will never know that God is all we need until God is all we've got.

24: TRANSFORMED BY TRUTH

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THE PURPOSE- DRIVEN LIFE
DAY 24

POINT TO PONDER: The truth transforms me.

VERSE TO REMEMBER: "If you continue in my word, then are you my disciples instead; and you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free." John 8:31-32 (KJV)

QUESTION TO CONSIDER:  What has God already told me in his Word that I haven't started doing yet?

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"To speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy toward all people." (Titus 3:2)

I don't speak ill of other people especially if it's not true. But when I find them so annoying and I can see that they are doing something terrible, I can't help but share my thoughts to a close friend. I am aware that although I'm not telling lies, what I'm doing is really evil. Aside from that, my sisters and I still argue and there are times when we hurt each other not only emotionally but physically as well. I am so ashamed to admit these mistakes but I cannot be a follower of Christ if I can't be open with my flaws and sins. 

Thursday, July 3, 2014

23: HOW WE GROW

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THE PURPOSE- DRIVEN LIFE
DAY 23

POINT TO PONDER: It is never too late to start growing.

VERSE TO REMEMBER: "Let God transform you inwardly by a complete change of your mind. Then you will be able to know the will of God what is good and is pleasing to him and is perfect." Romans 12:2b (TEV)

QUESTION TO CONSIDER: When do I need to stop thinking my way and start thinking God's way?

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It would be when problems come my way. I have already mentioned in my previous post that we experience these predicaments for a reason. Instead of resenting God for the pain, we should change our way of thinking. Like Him, we must let these difficulties develop and not destroy us.

22: CREATED TO BECOME LIKE CHRIST

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THE PURPOSE- DRIVEN LIFE
DAY 22

POINT TO PONDER: I was created to become like Christ.

VERSE TO REMEMBER: "As the Spirit of the Lord works within us, we become more and more like him and reflect his glory even more." 2 Corinthians 3:18b (NLT)

QUESTION TO CONSIDER: In what area of my life do I need to ask for the Spirit's power to be like Christ today?

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My parents are not wealthy and honestly, we are currently experiencing massive financial problems. Sometimes, I ask God why this is happening to us. Can't He just choose a bad person to have these difficulties? But after leafing through the pages of this chapter, I realized that these predicaments should be treated as an opportunity to become more like Christ. And besides, life was meant to be difficult because earth is not heaven. We can only experience real comfort and peace when we leave earth. So I guess this is the area of my life where I need the Spirit's power. I need strength to face all the challenges that God would give me and the ability to understand that these are the things that would enable me to grow.

Wednesday, July 2, 2014

21: PROTECTING YOUR CHURCH

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THE PURPOSE- DRIVEN LIFE
DAY 21

POINT TO PONDER: It is my responsibility to protect the unity of my church.

VERSE TO REMEMBER: "Let us concentrate on the things which make for harmony and the growth of our fellowship together." Romans 14:19 (PH)

QUESTION TO CONSIDER: What am I personally doing to protect unity in my church family right now?

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As what I have mentioned in one of my posts before (http://klaire-thegreat.blogspot.com/2014/06/17-place-to-belong.html), I am not a church member yet. I'm simply an attender. But if I were to become one, I would support and try my best to understand the leaders and my co-believers. I think that's the best way to maintain the unity. We all have our differences but I don't think that should become a hindrance to a good fellowship. We must focus on what we have in common and let that become the foundation of a strong relationship.

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

20: RESTORING BROKEN FELLOWSHIP

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THE PURPOSE- DRIVEN LIFE
DAY 20

POINT TO PONDER: Relationships are always worth restoring.

VERSE TO REMEMBER: "Do everything possible on your part to live in peace with everybody." Romans 12:18 (TEV)

QUESTION TO CONSIDER: Who do I need to restore a broken relationship with today?

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There's this high school friend of mine who unfollowed me on Twitter yesterday. I'm not making a big deal out of that but I was surprised because she used to be one of my closest friends. I'm not sure why she did that but then I remembered that when we entered college, she suddenly became distant. She doesn't talk to us that much anymore. Whenever we invite her to events or outings, she always begs off. I don't know what's wrong. We have always tried reaching out but she keeps out-casting herself. I guess it would be easier to stop exerting an effort, but I love her and she really is important to me. So no matter how hard it is, I would still keep trying to restore our broken relationship.

19: CULTIVATING COMMUNITY

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THE PURPOSE- DRIVEN LIFE
DAY 19

POINT TO PONDER: Community requires commitment.

VERSE TO REMEMBER: "We understand what love is when we realize that Christ gave his life for us. That means we must give our lives for other believers." 1 John 3:16 (GWT)

QUESTION TO CONSIDER: How can I help cultivate today the characteristics of real community in my small group and my church?

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I think it's best that I follow the tips written in this chapter. According to this book, there are nine characteristics of biblical fellowship that a church should possess:
  • Authenticity- we should share our feelings and shortcomings
  • Mutuality- we should uplift each other and help everyone feel good about themselves
  • Sympathy- when someone falls down, everyone should be there to support and help that person get back up
  • Mercy- after sharing our sins and flaws, everyone must be able to forgive each other
  • Honesty- we should be open and speak the truth at all times
  • Humility- it's a must that we admit our imperfections and weaknesses
  • Courtesy- respect begets respect and I can not stress that enough
  • Confidentiality- when someone opens up to us, we should keep it within the group and not gossip about it
  • Frequency- we should make our group a priority and allot enough time to be with the members

18: EXPERIENCING LIFE TOGETHER

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THE PURPOSE- DRIVEN LIFE
DAY 18

POINT TO PONDER: I need others in my life.

VERSE TO REMEMBER: "Share each other's troubles and problems, and in this way obey the law of Christ." Galatians 6:2 (NLT)

QUESTION TO CONSIDER: What one step can I take today to connect with another believer at a more genuine, heart-to-heart level?

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Some believers tend to wear masks. They hide their flaws and sins so they would seem perfect in the eyes of others. But that's what actually causes the death of real fellowship. So to have a more genuine connection, I suggest and would definitely try opening up to the other believers. I would tell them my imperfections and confess my sins so they could help me forgive myself and avoid doing the same mistakes again. We should all keep in mind that in a real fellowship, people experience authenticity.

Monday, June 30, 2014

ERIKA'S 18TH BIRTHDAY BASH

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Yay! No more a kid but still a teen,
So many things still to be weaned;
But we are just by your side to guide your steps,
In tasting life's width, height and depth.
So ride on! Give it a blast!
You're 18 at last!

(POEM TAKEN FROM: http://messages.365greetings.com/birthday/18th-birthday-wishes.html)

This post has long been overdue but it's better late than never, right? :)

Three weeks ago, Erika, a great friend of mine, celebrated her eighteenth birthday. It was held at The Buffet in Commonwealth, Quezon City. The place was really nice. It had a great ambiance and set-up.



I decided to wear a blue dress to match my boyfriend's blue suit. Hihi.




The program started with a prayer and was followed by a photo op with the celebrant.



And then it was time to eat. Yayyy!





The food served was really scrumptious. Two thumbs up for that.

After eating, my high school friends and I prepared for our dance number. It was embarrassing because not all of us (especially me) can dance well but it was absolutely fun.

You can check my instagram for the dance teaser. HA HA HA. 

Messages from the 18 candles came next.



I can't clearly recall what I said that time but I do remember telling her that I wish her nothing but happiness and that I will always be there for her no matter what.

The celebration ended with a song number from the debutante. She looked stunning as usual and her golden voice amazed everyone.


Before heading home, my friend pushed me (literally) to the mic stand and insisted that I sing All of Me by John Legend. I was really shy at first but I still decided to give it a try.



It was a good thing that one of my high school batch mates joined me in singing.

A totally cute and yummy cupcake was given to all the guests after the party.



It was absolutely fun because I had the chance to bond with some of my friends that I don't get to see that much anymore. It was a night filled with pure bliss and I still wish it never ended.


PHOTOS TAKEN BY: ELTON OROPESA AND BETEENA BACULI
 

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